If you overreact to someone's criticism or something negative that is said to you - even if it is an untrue accusation - you will lose credibility. Keep in mind that a harsh reaction could make someone think you are guilty. Even though you may be outraged that someone would believe in gossip, Scorpio, or say something negative about your work, there is no redemption in responding in an angry, hostile manner. Dealing with this kind of issue respectfully and gracefully will only empower you and show you to be a fair and reasonable person. 如果你对某人的批评或是负面的言词的反应太夸张—就算那些是不实指控—你还是会 失去信用。记住，激烈的反应会让别人认为你心里有鬼。虽然你可能会对别人听信八 卦或是批评你的努力而非常生气，天蠍，但是如果你用愤怒、满怀敌意的方式回应， 那反而会让你陷入无可挽回的境地。用尊敬与感谢的方式来处理这种事，这样做还会 让你更加强大，并且让你展现出你是诚实又讲道理的人。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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