※ 引述《sunanncherry (ann)》之铭言： : ※ 引述《mauriziafr (mauriziafr)》之铭言： : : No wonder you have no friend here in Taiwan, : : no wonder you don't care if your friend asks about your health. : : I just can't understand how would anybody take a smile as an offense. : : You want to take me off your friend list, : : I'm ok with it. : : What I want to know is how come everyhing wonderful we had together, : : could turn sore in just a snap? : : Of course you could choose what you want to believe, : : and I can be who I am as I wish. : : But it means no way that we should not show curtesy to each other. : : How on earth would you explain to yourself this kind of encounter is a bless? : : If you close the door to every one, : : you can run to the end of the world but still find nobody. : : I may not be very pessionate, : : at least I showed my kindness and I tried. : : Now I can only say that it's a pity you can't appreciate what I showed, : : because I sincerely believe that I was kind and friendly. : : Were you? : Hi, there. : I can neither offer a helping hand nor take away your sadness since I have : mine. I may not be optimistic, but I can understand how you feel more or less. : For some people, leaving themselves alone is exactly what they desire for, : which has nothing to do with who you are or what you are doing. : As we know, time can heal, and they just need time and so do we. : Perhaps, what really hurts is not about the ending or the process, but : about the pity. We spare no efforts to show what we really are, : but they just don't appreciate. : You don't have to put yourself in her/his shoes but just try to : free yourself from the negative thoughts and the puzzle. : I will never tell you it will be fine or you will be better tomorrow. : Instead, I feel like telling you that dealing with your own sadness and : feelings. Believe it or not, I am telling myself exactly the same words. : Does it really help? I am not sure, but I am trying. Thanks very much for your comforting words. I guess the most I got from this relationship was bewilderment. Fortunately I didn't have doubt in myself. Maybe he wanted to be left alone, or maybe he was angry. I feel simply it's a pity he wouldn't communicate with me, for I am willing to talk. Though it's he who closed the door, I still feel sorry... for both of us. --

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