狮子们，当你表现出自己最自然的样态，也就是坚强有自信时，那些比较没有安全感的人们会感到相形见绌、以及备受威胁。但由於这是你真实的样貌，要你把灿烂耀眼的光芒调暗一点，让其他人在你面前可以更舒适，并不是件公平的事。不过还是有个替代方案。无论是在职场还是社交场合，如果你必须花时间在这样的人身上，你可以藉由提起对方最让人印象深刻的特点和天份来建立自信。在鼓励他人时，这会是个让你的力量保持和蔼可亲的好方法。 ------------------- 原文： When you come off as very strong and confident, which is you in your most natural state, Leo, those who are less secure may feel overshadowed and intimidated. But since this is your true way of being, it isn't fair to ask you to tone down your dazzling bright light so that others can feel more comfortable in your presence. There is an alternative though. If you must spend time with someone like this, whether in a work environment or a social setting, you can build confidence by noticing someone's most impressive traits and talents. It's a great way to keep the energy genial while inspiring others. ------------------- 让你也一起发光，就不会觉得我太刺目耀眼了:3 --

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