有时一个人会变成恶霸，是因为他们在某方面被虐待。或许他们生命中的某个人残忍地对待他们，所以他们用类似的方式来对待其他人。现在你可能正在跟某个表现得咄咄逼人、甚至就像个恶霸的人共事。说不定对方本身有要回朔到童年的议题。不过你也会很惊讶，亲切的力量是可以改变一个人的行为的。 --------------- 原文: Sometimes a person becomes a bully because they have been mistreated in some way. Maybe someone in that person's life was cruel to them, so they turn around and treat someone else in a similar manner. You may be working with or dealing with someone now who is behaving in a pushy way, or maybe even like a bully. Maybe this individual has issues that could go back as far as childhood. But you may be surprised by the power that kindness can have on altering a person's behavior, Leo. --------------- 让霸凌的恶性循环终结在你的亲切。 昨天当说故事大哥哥大姐姐， 今天负责青少年(成年?)感化院。 狮子们这两三天要用200%的爱心与耐心维护世界和平:3 --

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