为了掩盖自己的没安全感，你可能会虚张声势逞强。当没有勇气、没有自信时，你完全不想要被其他人知道，但你也是人类，也会有那些低落感受。如果你现在觉得勇气不足，承认这点并不会伤害你。掩饰自身的恐惧反而对你不好。最重要的是，你要对自己诚实。当你这麽做了，你会发现事情无法解决的恐惧，实际上就只有一丁点。 -------------------- 原文: You may be putting on a show of bravado to cover up the insecurity you are feeling. You never want others to know when you don't feel brave and confident, but you are only human and sometimes you have those feelings. If you don't feel courageous now, being honest about it will not hurt you. However, covering up your fear could work against you. Most of all, though, you need to be honest with yourself. When you are, you will see that there is really very little to fear that can't be worked through. -------------------- 请诚实面对自己。 散发耀眼光芒的自己是自己， 没有自信、会感到害怕的自己也是自己。 接受自己的各种面向， 面对恐惧时，才能看清它真实的模样:3 --

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