你或许正在跟一个很难打交道的人共事。对方可能很情绪化、难相处、爱唱反调等等。对此你感到心灰意冷。你生来就是个领导者，当有人不服从时，你会倾向於对努力不抱有期望。如果从另一个角度切入，尽管这有点挑战性，不过你也许能看见对方有其他可取的天赋或才能。把焦点转移到那些才能上，你会发现彼此共事会更容易。 ------------------- 原文: You may be working with someone now who is very difficult to deal with. This person might be moody, cantankerous, oppositional, and more. This may be frustrating for you. Your nature is that of a leader, and when you can't get someone to comply, you might feel inclined to give up on the effort. But if you look at the other side of this coin, Leo, you will see that this person has talents or other gifts to offer despite the challenges. Focus more on those gifts, and you may find that it becomes much easier to work together. ------------------- 没有不会跑的千里马，只有眼力不佳的伯乐。 要改变他人个性、硬是让对方听话可能只会造成反效果。 把人放在对的位置，或许他就会像滚轮上的小老鼠自动卯起来跑。 又如果那个人是你的上司，就只能搭配向上管理一起服用试试看了:3 --

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