为了让某位朋友、或你爱的人能够积极乐观，你大概筋疲力尽了。几乎在各种情况下，你都有办法看见正向的那一面，因此你很擅长这种事。但要当别人的乐观辅导员，或许会让你感到心累。这的确很累人。而且你发现他的心态也开始要拖垮你了。如果你需要一点时间抽离，这是合乎情理的，甚至也许是个明智的做法。需要休息的话，也别太责怪自己。去帮自己的乐观充电，然後决定下一步该怎麽做吧。 -------------------- 原文: You may be worn out trying to keep a certain friend or loved one upbeat and thinking positive. You are good at that, Leo, because you have a knack for finding the positive in just about any situation. But you may be getting tired of your role as someone's optimism coach. It can be draining. And what's more, you may find that this person's attitude is beginning to drag you down too. If you need some time away, it's understandable and perhaps even wise. Don't beat yourself up if you need a break. Go restore your own optimism, and then decide what to do next. -------------------- 连长期照护系统都有为病人家属准备喘息服务。 让日以继夜照顾病人的家属能够有时间休息放松，做做自己想做的事。 避免连照护者都累倒的惨事发生。 有情有义是大猫的正字标记。 不过快撑不下去的时候，先照顾好自己也是很重要的:3 --

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