You frequently consider what other people need before you even begin to think about what you need. Your heart is big and generous, often to a fault. In some ways you see yourself as a certain person's only lifeline. That's a lot of pressure to live with, Leo. But this person is stronger than they appear. Either you want to see this person this way because it makes you feel closer; or this person has created this facade as a means of control. Either way, there are healthier ways to have a relationship. What do you need from this? That's the big question. Figure that out before you move forward. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *to a fault: 过度的 -- 你经常首先考虑别人需要什麽，才开始思考自己需要什麽。 你时常过度心胸宽大而且慷慨。 在某些方面，你将自己视为别人唯一的救命绳，这伴随着非常大的压力。 但这个人比他表现出来的还要坚强。 你之所以想要这样看待这个人，是因为会让你觉得和他更亲近。 或者只是这个人所营造出来假象，为了控制你。 不管怎样，都有更健康的方式建立一段关系。 你想要从中得到什麽？这是非常好的问题。 在你行动之前先好好想清楚。 -- 摘要：一段健康的关系不该建立在单方面的给予。 -- 呃，膝盖又中箭。Orz --

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