You know full well that if you had control over a certain situation, you could work your magic and make everything good and productive. But you do not happen to have control over every aspect of this, Leo, so your control would be quite limited. Yearning for the chance to change something you can't change will only bring frustration. Try letting the current scenario play out and allow it to fail on its own. If you wait it out, you could eventually wind up with enough power to make a difference. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *happen to: 恰巧 *frustration: 挫折 *scenario: 局面 -- 你非常清楚，如果完全掌控情况，你可以发挥所长，让一切变的更好、更有成效。 但你碰巧没有完全掌控到各个方面，所以你控制力就变的相当有限。 渴望改变某些事，而你却无法改变，将只尝会带给你挫折感。 试着让现在的情况顺其自然的发生，并且做好失败的心理准备。 如果你等待这情况结束，你终究能有足够的力量去改变。 -- 摘要：不可能一开始什麽都会，一定是从错误中学习，所以放宽心，你会做的更好。 -- 今天88节生日的大猫，生日快乐罗～ --

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