In medieval times, moats were created around the proximity of a castle to keep attackers away. Sometimes they were just deep trenches; sometimes they were filled with water. You may have created an emotional moat around some area of your life to keep hurt at bay, Leo. You are not admitting to something that you really need to express. It may be true that no one from outside can get in and deepen the hurt, but none of that pent-up negative energy can get out either. Open the drawbridge and express what you're feeling. It may not be so bad after all. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *medieval: 中世纪 *moat: 护城河 *proximity: 邻近 *trench: 壕沟 *hold/keep sb/sth at bay: 阻止 *pent-up: （感情）被压抑的 -- 在中世纪的时候，护城河建立在城堡的周围抵御入侵者。 有时候，所谓的护城河只是将很深的壕沟注入水。 你可能已经生活周围建立情感上的护城河，避免自己受到伤害。 你掩盖自己真实的情感。 确实没有人能闯入对你造成伤害，但被压抑的负能量同时也没办法出去。 放下吊桥，真实表达你的感觉。可能终究不是件坏事。 -- 摘要：别为保护自己不受到别人伤害，自己却伤害自己。 -- 今天生日的大猫，生日快乐。:) 有时候面具戴久了，脱下面具别人反而会怕。 每个人都只想要接触自己想接触的样貌啊～终究只好继续戴上面具。 「永远在别人的戏里，流下自己的泪。」──《戏子》 --

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