You may be trying to change a situation that is reliant on the choices or decisions of other people who don't seem to want to budge from where they are. This puts you in an uncomfortable position, Leo, because you can only take this so far without the agreement of others who don't agree with you. Usually, your powerful and assertive nature assists you in managing issues like this, but these people may be just as powerful and assertive as you. That's why a more cerebral, passionate approach is likely to work. Don't just make demands - express how you feel and why. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *reliant: 依赖的 *assertive: 有自信的 *cerebral: 理性的 -- 你尝试想改变靠别人做出选择或决定的情况，不过其他人似乎不想改变现状。 这让你陷入尴尬的处境，因为到目前为止没有人接受你的意见，只能安於现状。 一般情况下，强大且自信的特质会帮助你处理像这样的难题， 但这些人可能也拥有像你一样的特质。 这就是为什麽更多理性、热情的态度将会奏效。 不要只是要求，多表现出你的感受和想法。 -- 摘要：霸气收回来一点，柔情多释放一点；沟通不是你输我赢的游戏。 -- 最近崩溃到想在海边对着地平线大喊。XD --

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