You have been kind, compassionate, understanding, and encouraging to someone in your world who seems to be in need. But when you look back, Leo, you can see that this individual always seems to be in need. Because you have a sense of obligation toward this person, and because you care, you keep catering to the neediness. But the best, most helpful thing you can do now is to offer tough love instead. Be more demanding. This person has greater capabilities than you are allowing for. Give them the gift of standing on their own two feet. ------------------------------- 你一直善良、富有同情心、理解他人，并且鼓励你的世界中有这种需要的人。但是当你回 头看，狮子们，你发现这个人总是对你有情感上的索求。因为你对这个人有责任感，而且 你也在乎他，所以你会去满足他的需求。但现在你最好强硬起来，让对方学着不要那麽频 繁的对你索求、去要求他。这个人拥有比你能想像的更大的能力，这样的要求或许强硬了 点，但他日後会感激你的。 ------------------------------- 懒人包：爱之深责之切，强硬起来让对方独立一点。 --

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