It can be hard to understand why some people forgive those who have done somet hing unkind to them. Most would say it's all about the victim, not the one who is forgiven, because it releases that person from carrying the burden. You ma y not understand that right now, Gemini. Someone may have wronged you, and you probably aren't feeling very forgiving. Try to see it in a different way, wit hout getting caught up in the word itself. Even if you feel you can't yet forg ive, you can let it go. Try. 有些人会原谅那些曾经对自己不善的人，这或许让人难以理解。 大多数人会认为，原谅这件事的意义主要在於受害者自身，而非那个被原谅的人， 因为这能让受害者卸下心中的重担。 双子座，你此刻或许还无法领会这一点。 也许有人曾经亏待过你，而你现在也确实很难生出宽恕之心。 试着换个角度看待这件事，不必拘泥於「原谅」这个词本身。 即便你觉得自己暂时还无法真正原谅，也可以试着放下。 不妨试试看。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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