Please keep in mind that an argument between friends or family members is not yours to manage or even deal with. You may feel obligated to intervene because you know you can get others in line and under control, but this may be beyond your ability right now. It may be something that has to be handled by those i nvolved, because it will only cause frustration. Until the people involved in the conflict are mature enough to discuss this issue fairly, there is probably very little you can do. You are encouraged to walk away until a resolution ha ppens. 请记住，朋友或家人之间的争吵并非您该管束或处理的。 您或许觉得自己有义务介入， 因为您认为自己能够让对方保持冷静和理智， 但这或许超出了您目前的能力范围。 这或许应该由当事人自行解决，否则只会徒增烦恼。 在冲突双方都足够成熟，能够公平地讨论问题之前， 您可能无能为力。 建议您暂时离开，直到问题解决为止。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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