When a young person walks across a dance floor to ask someone to dance and is turned down, that long, slow return is often cruelly defined as a snub or a re jection, and yet this is an experience we have all had at some time in some ar eas of life. It is nothing to be ashamed of at all because it means that you t ried, rather than just talked about it. You may be thinking about taking a cha nce soon that could backfire on you, dear Gemini, and you may be worried about the judgment that will follow. You should try not to worry about it. You gott a try this. 当一个年轻人走过舞池邀请别人跳舞却被拒绝时， 这种漫长而缓慢的返回被残酷地定义为冷落或拒绝， 而这却是我们在人生某些阶段都经历过的经验。 这根本不需要感到羞耻，因为这意味着你尝试过。 你也许正在考虑冒险，亲爱的双子们， 这可能会适得其反，你可能会担心随之而来的批评。 你应该试着不去担心。 你一定要试试。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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