You can only communicate with someone successfully if they are willing to actu ally listen to what you have to say. Just because you talk and they hear you, that does not mean that your message is resonating. That may be the problem yo u are facing now with someone you love who just does not want to hear what you have to say. They want you to change your mind, or there is something else ab out your message that they do not approve of. If you keep talking, it won't ch ange anything. If you mean what you say, then follow through, dear Gemini. The y will have to choose to come around. 只有当对方愿意认真倾听你说话时，你才能成功地与对方沟通。 你说了，他们也听进去了，并不代表你的讯息引起了共鸣。 这或许就是你现在面临的问题：你爱的人根本不想听你说话。 他们想让你改变主意，或者是你的讯息中存在他们不认同的地方。 如果你继续说下去，什麽也改变不了。 亲爱的双子座，如果你真心诚意的说，那就坚持下去。 他们必须做出选择，才能改变他们的决定。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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