Do not undervalue or underestimate the importance of finding happiness in a si tuation you are now negotiating, or of being just as fair to yourself as you a im to be to others. You may be downplaying what you want out of an agreement i n favor of someone else, perhaps just to be kind. Yet if you get less out of t his than you actually want, dear Gemini, your heart might not be in it as it s hould be. Be honest with yourself and with others. That's the only true way to get the best for everyone out of the experience. 不要低估在你目前所处的情况之下寻找幸福的重要性， 或不要低估对自己跟对他人一样公平的重要性。 你可能会淡化自己想要从协议中拿到什麽，而倾向於其他人， 也许只是为了表达善意。 然而，如果你获得的比你真正想要的少，那麽你可能就不会全心投入其中。 诚实的面对自己与他人。 这是让每个人从经验中获益的唯一真正方法。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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