A volatile subject needs to be discussed, and you have to bring the subject up . The last thing you want is an argument, but you know very well that if you t alk about a certain topic, someone is going to get angry and pick a fight. Yet you do not have to fight back or argue. The purpose of the conversation that you have to have is to make the situation better - not just for yourself, but also for the one you need to talk about it with. If you make that clear up fro nt and you turn on your Gemini charm, you should be fine. 需要讨论一个不稳定的话题，而你必须提出这个话题。 你最不想发生的就是争论，但是你很清楚， 如果你提起某个特定的话题，有人会生气并挑起争端。 你不必争论或反击。 你必须进行对话的目的是让情况变得更好 — 不只是问了你自己， 也为了你需要谈论此事的人。 如果你事先把这一点说清楚，并发挥你双子座的魅力，那麽一切都会好起来。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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