A friend or loved one might be telling you that your refusal to argue with som eone is giving in or giving up. You know better, dear Gemini. Refusing to enga ge in an argument is a wise choice. It does not mean that you agree with the i nstigator or that you are giving up in defeat. It means that you don't want co ntention in your life, and you know that there is probably another, better way to resolve whatever is going wrong. If you were to create an agitated conflic t, it would be much harder to resolve. Find your own way, and don't let other opinions bother you. 一位朋友或你爱的人也许会告诉你，你拒绝与某个人争论就是屈服或放弃。 你更清楚，亲爱的双子们。 拒绝参与争论是明智的抉择。 这不代表你同意煽动者的观点，也不代表你会失败而放弃。 这意味着你不希望生活中发生争执， 并且你知道有另外更好的方法来解决出现的问题。 如果你要制造激烈的冲突，那麽解决起来就更难了。 找出你自己的路，别让其他人的观点影响你。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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