When someone is desperate in some way, it is more likely that they can be take n advantage of. By wearing their heart on their sleeve, they lose leverage and the ability to negotiate. There is something you may feel rather desperate ab out now. Not only will that make you appear weaker and more willing to pay mor e or do more than you should to get something you want, dear Gemini, but it wi ll weaken you emotionally. Try loosening your grip on the idea of what you wan t and think of other options. Sometimes letting go makes you more powerful. 当某个人在某种程度上陷入绝望时，他们很可能被利用。 藉由开放心房跟人分享他们的情绪而不是隐藏起来， 他们丧失影响力跟谈判能力。 现在，你可能对某件事情感到非常绝望。 不只让你显得更弱，而且更愿意付出更多或做更多的事情来获得你想要的东西， 亲爱的双子们，而且它还会在情感上削弱你。 试着放松对自己想要什麽的想法，并考虑其他选择。 有时候放手让你更有力量。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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