When someone gives you mixed signals, it is often because they don't know what they want or how they feel. Their emotions may be fluctuating. Sometimes, tho ugh, a person will intentionally give you mixed signals because they are tryin g to manipulate or control a situation. If you have concerns about this with s omeone now, dear Gemini, you don't have to guess - you can ask directly. Whate ver the reason is, being direct about it is the best way to get to the truth - for yourself and for someone else. 当某个人给你混合的讯号时，通常都是因为他们不知道他们要的是什麽， 或者他们的感受是什麽。 他们的情绪也许是波动起伏的。 有时候，一个人会故意给你混合的讯号，那是因为他们试图要操控或者控制局势。 如果你现在对某个人有这个疑虑，亲爱的双子们，你不必猜测 — 你可以直接问他。 无论他的理由是什麽，直接面对是了解真相最佳的方式 — 无论是为了自己，还是为了别人。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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