You may be tempted to be more assertive with someone who is refusing to give y ou the answer you need or to join you in a mission they promised they would he lp out with. That might not be the best way to approach this, though, dear Gem ini. If you get too pushy - even if you feel justified in doing so - you might cause that person to retreat into their shell and move even further away. The re may be a concern they have that they have not yet raised, so a gentle appro ach can help them to talk about it. And then you will have the chance to overc ome any issues and move forward. 当某个人拒绝给你你需要的答案，或者是拒绝加入他们之前答应你要帮忙的任务时， 你就可能变得更加武断。 这个不是这个问题最好的解决方法，亲爱的双子们。 如果你太咄咄逼人 — 即使你觉得这样做是合理的 — 那样也许造成那个人退到自己的壳里，甚至离你更远。 他们可能有一些担忧尚未提出，因此温和的方法可以帮助他们谈论这个问题。 那麽你将会有机会去克服任何问题，并且继续前进。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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