You may soon have to talk to and interact with someone you have been estranged from. You can be polite, of course, and you should, but this does not mean th at you have to ultimately reconcile. It may feel like you do, perhaps because of what other people are saying to you or what they seem to be expecting. Don' t pay attention to that. Do what feels right for you. This may come up again i n the future, and it will get easier. In the meantime, you can keep the space between you while remaining cordial. You'll feel better if you do. 你也许很快必须跟你疏远的人交谈跟互动。 当然，你可以有礼貌，你应该如此， 但是这不代表你最终必须和解。 你可能会感觉如此，也许因为对方对你说了什麽，或者他们在期待着什麽。 别注意那个。 做适合你的事。 将来可能会再次出现这种情况，它将会变得更容易。 同时，你可以保持亲切的同时保持你们之间的距离。 如果你这麽做的话，你将会感觉更好。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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