Someone’s expectations of you might exceed what you had in mind to do or to g ive. But because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, dear Gemini, you mi ght wind up going along with what is expected anyway. But try to see this in a n objective way. You are trying to protect someone else, but what about you? I s it fair to do more than you feel comfortable doing? If you don't feel good a bout what is expected, then explain what you had in mind. Be fair to yourself. 某个人对你的期待也许超过你想做的或给予的。 但是，因为你不想要伤害任何人的感情，亲爱的双子们， 所以最终你会依照预期行事。 但是，试着以客观的角度去看待事情。 你也许试着保护某个人，但是那你自己呢？ 做出超出你觉得舒服的事情是否公平？ 如果你对预期的结果感觉不满意，那麽请解释你的想法。 对你自己公平一点。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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