You may be engaged in an exchange that is sort of a negotiation. The other par ty wants you to give something up that you don't want to give up. It may seem like you are at a standstill, dear Gemini, locking horns on this issue. But th ere may be a creative way to handle this that will not involve cheating yourse lf out of something you deserve. If you can look at the other party's motivati on and needs more carefully, you will be able to figure this out. Don't give u p more than you want, but do work at providing something that will make the ot her person feel satisfied too. 你可能参与一场类似谈判的交流。 另外一方想要你放弃你不想放弃的东西。 你似乎在这个问题上陷入僵局，亲爱的双子们。 但是那里有创意的方法去处理这个问题， 而不会欺骗你自己去获得你应得的东西。 如果你更仔细地观察对方的动机和需求， 你就能够理解出来。 不要放弃超过你想要的，但是努力提供一些对方也会感到满意的东西。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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