Most of us carry around at least a little bit of emotional baggage. You unders tand that, dear Gemini, and you are very tolerant of the people in your life w ho have brought problems from their past to the present. However, sometimes yo u have to draw a line, especially when someone's past is having a negative eff ect on your own present. You need to have a conversation with someone in your personal life. You need to convince them that their best and most fulfilling l ife will only come when they leave the old one behind. 大部分的我们都至少背负着一点情绪包袱。 你了解的，亲爱的双子们， 而你对那些从过去到现在曾经带给你问题的人非常容忍。 然而，有时候你必须划清界线， 特别是某个人的过去对你的现在带来负面影响。 你需要跟你个人生活中的某个人谈一谈。 你需要说服他们只有将旧有的过去抛在脑後， 他们最好的、最充实的生活才会到来。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 Ps1. 今天才刚从Facebook 看到洪仲清临床心理师介绍的情绪劳动（Emotional labor)， 很有感触，恰巧回应到9/15的运势文。心累...... --

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