What starts out as a minor disagreement or differing hat starts out as a minor disagreement or differing opinion could turn into a conflict if you don't han dle it graciously. You may be at odds with someone over something that doesn't seem all that important, but the other party might see it in a far more serio us way. Try to understand why they feel so strongly, and try to empathize with what they are feeling. You don't have to agree, Gemini, but if you can show r espect for their perspective, it doesn't have to devolve into a conflict. 如果你不优雅地处理它，起初一个小小的分歧或者是不认同可能转变成冲突。 你也许和某个人对一些看起来不是那麽重要的事情意见不合， 但是对方却是很严肃地看待此事。 试着去了解他们为何感受如此强烈，并且试着同理他们的感觉。 你不必认同，双子们，但是，如果你可以表示尊敬他们的观点， 它不必演变成冲突。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教了，谢谢。 --

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