If you are basing your happiness on acquiring something, then your happiness i s dependent on getting whatever it is that you want. This is true whether it's something tangible, like a certain home, or something intangible, like a spec ific relationship. If you do that, then you are dependent on it to bring you j oy. But if you are happy with what you already have, then you will always be h appy. It's pretty simple. That does not mean you can't aspire to certain thing s. You certainly can - but you can't make those things the key to happiness. T ry to be happy with the current situation as it is, and you'll be happy. Plus, it will give you even more power to get something else that you want. 如果你的幸福是奠基於获得某些东西， 那麽你的幸福是取决於你想要获得的任何东西。 无论这个东西是有形的，例如像是一个家， 或者是无形的，例如像是一段关系，都是如此。 如果你那麽做，那麽你就仰赖它带给你幸福。 但是如果你对你自己已经拥有的感到满意， 那麽你就会永远幸福快乐。 它很简单。 这不意味着你不能渴望某些特定的事物。 你绝对可以 — 但是你无法让这些成为幸福的关键。 试着对目前你已经拥有的感到满意，你将会幸福。 另外，它会给你更多的力量去获得更多你想要的东西。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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