A set of concerns may keep cycling through your mind. The moment you feel good about a decision, those concerns come back to haunt you again. How can you ge t past that? If you're feeling very independent and you don't want to share th is with anyone else, that might be the problem. You aren't getting feedback to validate what you feel. If sharing your thoughts with someone isn't the answe r, Gemini, then try writing it all down on paper. Seeing it in black and white , plus the act of actually writing out your thoughts, could help to clarify an d perhaps validate your options. 一连串的担心也许缭绕在你的脑中。 你感觉良好要做决定的这个时刻，担心又再次困扰着你。 你怎麽能过去呢？ 如果你觉得你非常独立，而你不想要跟任何人分享这件事情， 这就是问题。 你无法得到反馈验证你的感受。 如果跟某个人分享你的想法并不是你的答案，双子们， 试着白纸黑字写下来。 以黑白方式看它，再加上实际写出你的想法和行为， 那可以帮助你澄清并且验证你的选择。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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