You may have been the recipient of a lot of advice recently, dear Gemini, but you may be seeing it as - and reacting to it as though - it is criticism. Ther e is a difference, you know. Advice can be critical, but it is usually intende d to be helpful and constructive. It's all about perception. Try to shift your understanding of any comments or direction you are receiving now. Even if the intentions are to be harsh, there may be something you can learn in what you hear - and that would be to your benefit. 你最近曾接受了许多的建议，亲爱的双子们 ， 但是，你也许视它为 — 并且对它的反应 — 批评。 那是有区别的，你知道的。 建议可以是批判的，但是它通常倾向是有帮助性与建设性的。 它一切都关系着知觉（感知）。 试着转换你现在收到的任何批评或方向的理解。 即使它的意图是很严厉的， 那里也许有东西你可以从中学习或是聆听 — 这对你有利。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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