We have all heard the phrase "you can catch more flies with honey than with vi negar." This is certainly true. And someone may be encouraging you along this line to be kind and forgiving to someone you disagree with. If you feel that y our involvement will require a stronger approach or reaction, Gemini, then you have to go with what you feel at a gut level. Some circumstances do require a tougher stance. After all, you aren't really trying to catch flies, are you? 我们都曾听过「蜂蜜比醋更能捉到苍蝇」。 这绝对是真的。 某个人也许鼓励你在过程中要和蔼且宽容对待你不认同的人。 如果你感觉你的涉入将会需要更强而有力的方法或反应，双子们， 那麽你必须在直觉层面上跟着你的感觉。 某些环境的确需要采取一个更强硬的立场。 毕竟，你不是真的想捕捉苍蝇，不是吗? PS. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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