It is difficult to deal with someone who is passive/aggressive because they ar e not upfront about things. Trying to interact with someone who is not being a uthentic in expressing what they mean is pointless because you can't really ge t to the truth easily. If you are facing a situation like this now, Gemini, in teracting will only frustrate you further. Say what you have to say, and leave it at that. When the other party is ready to deal realistically, they will co me to you. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to work around someone's kinks. 很难去解决某个人是消极的/好斗的，因为他们不坦率面对事情。 试着与某个人互动是无意义的，因为他不真实地表达他们的意见， 你无法容易的了解真相。 如果你现在面临的情况就像如此，双子们，互动只会让你更沮丧。 说你该说的话，然後就这样吧。 当对方准备好要面对现实时，他们就会来找你。 不要试图解决别人的问题时让自己发疯。 Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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