You may feel so responsible for a certain person in your life that you are loo king at some of their mistakes as your own. Even if you rationally recognize t hat you are not at fault, dear Gemini, you may find some way to blame yourself anyway. Don't go there! In fact, it would be wise to pull back from this obli gation altogether. You don't have to withdraw any offers of assistance, but yo u must stop taking on another person's burdens as your own. Nothing constructi ve will happen that way. 你也许觉得你对某个人要负责任，你将他们的错误当成是自己的。 即使你理性地意识到那不是你的错，亲爱的双子们， 你仍然可以找到某种方式责备自己。 别往那里去想。 实际上，比较聪明的作法是把义务都推回去。 你不必撤回任何支持，但是你必须停止再把其他人的负担当作自己的。 那样没有任何建设性的事情会发生。 Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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