When a person is dead set against something, pushing them to try it will proba bly only make them more likely to dig in and refuse. If you are hoping to conv ince someone of something now, Gemini, the best way to go is to intrigue them. Don't directly ask - just give hints and leave an air of mystery provoking cu riosity. If you make something seem appealing enough, without being pushy or i nsistent, you might pique that person's curiosity. And then, if they choose to proceed, it is their own idea, which will make them more open to it. It can w ork wonders - give it a try. 当一个人决心不要去做某件事情，你强迫他们去尝试，只会造成他们开始拒绝。 如果你现在希望去说服某个人某件事情，双子们，最好的方式就是去激发他们。 别直接问 - 只要给他们暗示，留下一些神秘感引起他们的好奇心。 如果你让某件事情看起来够吸引人的，不用强迫或是坚持， 你也许激起那个人的好奇心。 然後，如果他们选择继续前进，那是他们自己的想法，将会造成他们对此事更加开放。 它可以产生奇蹟，试试看吧！ Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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