※ 引述《celestial09 (celestial)》之铭言： : ※ 引述《bigslogan (slogan)》之铭言： : : Tonight, I tried to work hard to ignore this lonely feeling. : : (sorry, since I don't really know what you're trying to tell, so this is my best : : fixxing.) : : maybe I have to learn how to talk sweetly : : I've been single for 24 years. : no worries....same here. I've been single for 25 years until recently. : After 4 months of dating, I became single again. :( : Life is so boring without that special someone to share with. : Everybody is busy for their own stuff. Even my best girl friends are busy : dating. They can talk to you once in a while, but they cannot accompany you : for the rest of their life. That's the harsh reality. XDDDD : My dad said, if I can never meet a decent guy, just try to depend on myself : for the rest of my life, which is fine too. This is a lonely option, but it's : better than coupling up with someone who does not meet your standard or does : not love you enough. :P This is one of my favorite book which wrote by a strong woman who can always be herself and be the boss of her own.Women are dilemmatic. Without a doubt,women are too easy being in dilemma.Each time trying to adjust our attitude on loving others ,we fail in front of ourselves at beginning. Chances are we all know what is the relationship supposed to be, but we all forget what is better for OURSELVES. In the society, we have the responsibility to play a role though we have a right to confront it. For instance,one of my friend,Shelley,she was in the cooking class ;her teacher asked other classmates about whether they are going to get higher degree or not, and when it was her turn to be asked, her teacher asked her ‘well,so are you going to get married with a perfect guy after graduating?’ ,it was so hurt for her that be treated differently. It seemed like women its more like playing role who have to carry the responsibility " to BE A WOMEN." As a matter of fact,by the time we are getting older ,the difference of relationship value which is between male and female are changed. We are no longer think we are needed in love. We turns into holding a belief that we should be like a WOMEN. Yet,its not exatly what love shows us. Thats why we fail in every bad relationship easily. Better single than sorry. We all belong to us when it comes to a long-tern relationship. Regardless of how hard it is to not only understand but also exactly make it work, we still have to tell ourselves ‘why not try it?’, --

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