Perhaps you were taken advantaged of before, and was hurt with infidelity, that's why you don't want to give and love completely. You said people should be a bit selfish in order to survive. You said we should put our own advantage in first priority and secure our own future first. Maybe you are right, and more sophisticated, but I just feel very tired because I am not that kind of person. In this world, different people hold different believes and value systems. Perhaps our value systems overlap for the majority, but still, there are some aspects that are irreconcilable. I am confused now and don't know if we can solve the problem together. Why should I stay in the US for a unreliable guy? Dear, I am thiking if we should break up... I did not even ever get a bundle of flower from you... I feel I had such bad luck, to fall in love with someone who is not willing to give and love completely, while I am the first time being in a relationship I tried to be decent, as that are what my parents taught me. I want to help you get rid of past shadows and meet more nice pepople. I hope to melt your heart with my sincerity. However, now I am very tired because I barely get any feedback. Hm...maybe we have different standards and definitions of being nice/in love. I am having too high expectations, due to my upbringing/background. Don't know if this is the so-called cultural differences between mainland China and Taiwan. --

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