※ 引述《teddy7777777 (teddyboy)》之铭言： : Well, when you feel unsuitable and uncomfortable what is : the voice in your heart? Yes, that is " NO". : Because you are conscious of the persuation from the guy. : Dont care much about whether you think to much. : And you mentioned that the man was totally not your type, so : next time when he invite you a cup of coffee all you have to : do is refused it. It wont be any harmful. Others would be hurt : only when you make them think they get opportunites and actually not. : So i dont know your attitute absolutely, maybe you should ask youself,too... : Just listen to your heart, say No when you dont want it. And if you reject : at the begining, things will get complicate no more. sigh, I am not saying I don't understand I have to say NO. I am saying how to say it. Just say "Thank you, but you are not my type"? Make a lot of excuses to avoid any invitations? I do not have much experience for either being pursued or rejecting court. I am always curious how people can keep friendship after someone expressed his court to another and was rejected. However, I sincerely appreciate your caution. I mean it. --

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