To beeline: Many thanks for your response. Iam glad to see those who share the same values and also confront the similar difficulties. I don't understand why some people endeavor to find the one desperately. What makes me more uncomfortable is that they impose their values on others. Their values freak me out. "It is better to have babies as early as possible" "When a woman's beauty fade away, no guy wants you" balabala...... make me totally speechless. I wish I could I have a happy family of my own in the near future. But...it is not about the time. There is one case. One of my friends has been with her BF since college. She told me she was very sad for she cannot break up with her BF. They are of the same age, but her BF plans not to get married until he is 35. Idon't know how to comfort her. She has been talking of changing a BF for years. The worst is that she cannot find anyone to replace her BF's position. Time just slips away. She makes no change at all. good luck to you :P ※ 引述《beeline (Dunno)》之铭言： : I'm a girl. : And got a similiar situation with inferetial. : Already 25, but not in a steady relationship. : Actually, never got a relationship among the past 25 yrs. : Extremely embarrassed about being positive about find the one. : I know, it's cool to be alone. : Maybe it'd be better to stay single if you're not ready. : But somtimes I'd still wonder what's wrong with me or : what's wrong with those guys desperately looking for the one. : At times, I do think so and feel depressed. : And became a little cynical to The L Word. : I think my case is even worse than you. : But just like the old saying goes, : "You're nobody 'til sombody loves you." : Most of the time, I still wrould like to belive those love stories. : And try to know more friends. : After all, there's no loss to get more friends. : Good luck to you and me. : :-) --

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