the following opinion would go along with the mental side among a pretty girl, male helpers, and other girls. In terms of girls' apparence, each guy has his own taste and definition. The so-called a beauty is a girl who reach the standard of attraction in the mind of most guys, then, those charming girls, of course, would pop out more shinely and frenquently in the eyes of them, just like those bright stars in the sky always drawing more attention. It's quite natural ane similar for whenever guys or girls to find a pleasant one first in a group and have a desire to keep in touch. In this angle, those with pleasant look indeed have some degrees of advantage first. (they have gotten free gifts from their parents already) However, the born gift contains some risks. When a pretty girl catches most guys' eyes and draw some of them near her as helpers (including true ones or pretend ones), she, in some meanings,is also exposed to more traps. First all of, if she has not enough wisdom to see through those male helpers, she may easily be caught by some pretended helper or develope a pampered attitude toward all helpers. Second, the bright appearance and the special treat from most guys also would collect other girls's eyes. Most of them may step back first and observe how she deals with those active male helpers and which way she chooses to pay back others' favor to decide if the pretty girl deserves their recognition. In this sense, a pretty look draws not only more helpers but only numerous potential spectators, and more judges. Therefore, pretty girls can roughly be categorize into two type: 1. easy-going beauty --- their efforts to inner developement can go with the excellent look. 2. spoiled beauty --- their gifts are abused , misled and then turn out to be a poison to others and themselves. it's my personal rough opinion. --

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