作者vadajoan (想想)
看板CultureShock
标题Re: [欧亚]所谓的婉转
时间Fri Nov 16 07:40:39 2007
Exactly.
It really depends on the professors, but in our department,
email is the major mean for communication. I may not be
a professor but as a lecture, I personally would prefer
students to email me or arrange an appointment for meetings
because I'm not always in my office and I would feel bad
too if a student came looking for me but I wasn't there.
Also, my guess is that the undermined reason which has
provoked your professor is probably the power struggle
between the teachers and the professors. A and B might
not get along well (possibly under the table), or they
work in two very separate area of interests that they
hardly know each other.
Again, to stress what others have suggested, next time,
you don't have to tell the professor why you are not
coming to class. Trust me, they are NOT interested in
your excuses no matter what (unless there's a family
tragedy involved).
PS I do have one student who emailed me before class
telling me that he can't come to my class because
of a pre-secheduled meeting with another teacher.
Surely I'm not happy about it, but I didn't say anything.
So I can understand why your professor is not happy about
it. I don't blame him, but I don't think it's necessarily
to do some damage control either. In my case, I would
forgot all about it afterwards due to my heavy work load.
※ 引述《ShiningRuby (闪亮红宝石女王)》之铭言:
: 我是觉得你用email问并不会没礼貌,
: 我在美国念书快六年了,要请假都是这样请的,
: 老师也都说要请假就事先寄email,
: 没人说"请打电话给我或在我的office hour当面问我",
: 其实我也觉得请假这种事情不需要打电话或当面问,
: 教授搞不好还觉得"不要拿这种小事烦我"咧....(我承认我是教授的话我会这样觉得)
: 我想症结应该是你问了W教授"或是你会不会建议我怎麽做呢?"
: 从W教授的回覆,我猜应该是你那个问题让他误会了,
: 他可能以为你在期盼他能帮你去跟B教授桥更好的面谈时间之类的吧??
: 你当时要是就说不得已要用上课时间去找B教授,请W教授包函,而不要他建议你怎样作,
: 我想W教授就不会回你那几句看来有点冲的话了.
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※ 编辑: vadajoan 来自: 69.207.96.85 (11/16 07:46)
1F:推 jdpd:原PO好像是因为有课才不能去meeting吧。v大正好说反了... 11/16 22:16