I'm doing the same thing right now in the States. We always met outside. Recently he just invited me to play basketball with him, and asked me if I want to meet up in his apartment. I replied him by e-mail that we'd better meet outside. It's very important to protect yourself. Whether it's culture shock or not, as long as you are not comfortable with that, you should be honest. If you expect people to respect you, you have to let them know your bottom line. ※ 引述《nana0426 (JJ)》之铭言： : 我最近找了一个陪我练对话的美国人，是ABC。 : 我们住不同栋，但可以算是邻居。 : 第一次见面约在大楼大厅， : 第二次约见面时， : 他问我是要在他家，我家，还是在外面的其他地方。 : 我觉得有点怪怪的是， : 刚认识的朋友可以约在家里吗? : (不晓得这算不算是CULTURE SHOCK>"<) : 请大家给我一点意见吧~ : 如果约在外面又很怪， : 因为又要一起回家… : 感谢 -- Though path beneath our feet is not always clear, God provides a way http://www.wretch.cc/user/greenthumb12 --

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