※ 引述《cloudysky (jen)》之铭言： : 骂我) 男孩子在一个relationship里面总是会希望自己是可以让女生依靠的一方 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ If you always think so, you will never got a white girl, particularly from Europe. : 当一个男生要跟一个讲英文(或是别的文)的女生交往时, 如果他自己的英文不是 : 自己的母语的话, 可能也是会多多少少会害怕, 怕自己是不是会在女生面前出糗 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Indeed. Do you want to know why Taiwanese usually not confident to show off? Remember when we were students at schools of every level, there were really students could show off confidentially. However, the teachers dislike this very much; if you keep quiet, you will be fine; if you show off, you can get something in the next minutes. Years and years past, significant number of people of this nation have lost confidence even to speak their opinions nor to argue for their right. When they are speaking, they watches the listeners' faces; they are trying not to make the listeners unhappy (although the words must not make them very happy...). Language problem, certainly, makes it worse. I don't really think language is really a problem, nevertheless. Have you watched an English film, Love Actually? or a French film, The Russian Dolls. I am sure they will give you some ideas. To say love is not that difficult. However, if you have even never said 'Je t'aime' to a French girl, you cannot just give an excuse of bad French. --

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