作者lerudit (l'Erudit)
看板CultureShock
标题Re: [欧洲] 欧洲人的性开放程度
时间Tue Jun 27 07:39:17 2006
※ 引述《crazy1111 (crazy)》之铭言:
: 不知道在这里讨论适不适合
: 自从六零年代欧洲的sexual revolution之後,欧洲人的性开放程度
: 相较於其他西方国家,明显开放许多,比起亚洲那更不用说了。
: 电视里的A片,没有锁码,不用额外付费
It can be, but only at very late night.
However, I doubt if there are many people want to watch those.
In normal time, it is possible to see some nakedness on some TV programmes,
depending on situation.
Nakedness is nothing, to most of the educated people.
: 不过,真的比较想知道,以北欧为例,生活在北欧的人,性生活真的如此开放?
: 经常换伴侣? 每天带不同人回去睡?
: 虽说前文有人提及,有时深夜去PUB狂欢後,大家其实都是各自回家,
: 不过也会发现,有人看对眼了,就直接带回家...
: 虽然知道各式各样的人都有
: 不过,有谁可以谈谈到底开放的程度如何? 难道她们不怕AIDS?
: 又应该如何判断这些北欧人是不是真的那麽play boy or play girl?
I guess you are confused of the definition of 'an open mind'.
To keep an open mind doesn't mean you have to do everything or accept every
manner.
To keep an open mind doesn't mean you will have sex with many people.
To keep an open mind includes listening to an individual and respecting their
thinking, decision and manners that under protection of laws and not affect
the others.
So, in some countries where people used to have open mind, for example
if you say I don't want to drink more, nobody will give you more;
if you say I got to go home by 10pm, nobody will keep you until 10.10pm;
if you don't have sex with anybody for ten years, nobody will laugh at you;
if you do have sex with many people, nobody will say anything against you;
if you like to use condom, use it then;
if you don't like to use a condom, but like to use two, get on with it;
you can wear as less as you can, or as much as you can, suppose you don't
wear a bomb;
you can kiss in the street at any time, but do not block the road;
...
All of them are basically up to you, or somebody, suppose you don't make
anybody unhappy; that is your human right.
So, please, do not mess them up, else you won't see the truth and the beauty
of the European culture. I would suggest do not refer to anybody whatever
'playboy', 'playgirl', etc. These are disapproval terms. Their manners
do not affect your life, and you would be criticising others privacy...
Also, there is no limitation under protection of laws. You will never get
a reliable answer for the question.
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※ 编辑: lerudit 来自: 81.111.48.3 (06/27 07:44)
※ 编辑: lerudit 来自: 81.111.48.3 (06/27 07:57)
1F:推 cj25781:很中肯! 06/27 08:08
2F:推 principeiii:没错 原po感觉只是想听些煽腥 06/27 08:24
3F:推 dennis99:推推推 06/27 08:25
4F:推 wellwel:TO 2楼,就算是想听煽腥色,应该也不是什麽大不了的事吧?! 06/27 10:56
5F:→ wellwel:既然你推这篇文,就别忘了文中"To keep an open mind"那段~ 06/27 10:58
6F:推 HoJinChang:只怕腥煽色夜店里头就有了,何苦去欧洲呢 @@ 06/27 11:20
7F:推 wellwel:原来...很多人推文都是不看内容的啊?! 06/27 11:35
8F:→ wellwel:枉费lerudit这麽详尽的po了此篇好文... 06/27 11:37
9F:推 HoJinChang:枉费你推不停 XDD 06/27 11:43
10F:推 wellwel:真的...要看过再推~ 06/27 11:44
11F:→ wellwel:无论是性喜煽腥色,或害怕煽腥色,都应该keep an open mind 06/27 11:46
12F:推 wellwel:难道lerudit这篇提醒大家To keep an open mind的好文, 06/27 11:50
13F:推 wellwel:却只是让某些人反过来相讥与自己意见稍有不同的另一些人吗 06/27 11:55
14F:推 evendie:不用or用两个保险套 都有可能不保险→妨碍他人健康 吧 :p 06/27 14:25
15F:推 lerudit:To use how many condoms is basically up to you. C'mom. 06/28 20:09
16F:推 ageb:agree...为什麽用英文?老外喔? 06/29 10:14