Holding onto a grudge is a lot like refusing to put the trash cans down by the curb for the garbage truck to remove. It will sit there and stink for a good long time, and of course you'd never do that! A grudge often develops because of a betrayal or hurt feelings, but it has no value, and you don't have to keep it. That does not necessarily mean you have to forgive or forget, dear Moonchild. It simply means you can choose not to let it weigh you down anymore. That's what you have to do with a grudge holding you back. Find a way to let it go. 心怀怨恨就很像是拒绝把垃圾桶放在路边给垃圾车收走，垃圾桶将会一直待在那里， 然後臭一阵子，但是你当然绝对不会这样做的啊！怨恨往往是由於背叛或是受伤的感 觉而产生的，不过它并没有价值可言，所以你不需要一直耿耿於怀。那不一定表示你 就必须原谅或遗忘，亲爱的月之子。这仅仅是意味着你可以选不要再让它拖累你，那 正是你对於阻碍你前进的恨意所该做的事。想办法释怀吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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