Have you been trying to please someone who just cannot be pleased? You are no quitter, dear Moonchild, but your tenacity, when combined with your sensitive nature, can be a challenging equation. You are trying so hard without success, and it is leaving you frustrated, personally and emotionally drained. It might even be causing you to feel as though you have failed. You need to recognize that no matter what you do or how hard you try, your efforts might not be appreciated - but that's not about you. Try to be happy with pleasing yourself instead. 你有没有尝试过取悦一个就是无法被取悦的人？你不是会轻易放弃的人，亲爱的月之 子，不过你的坚韧与敏感的天性结合起来就会相当矛盾又难搞。你努力尝试了这麽多， 但是却迟迟未能成功，而这会让你感到沮丧，也会让你身心俱疲。这也许甚至会导致 你觉得似乎自己已经失败了。你必须体认到不论你做了什麽，或是你多麽努力地尝试， 可能都不会有人感谢你的付出——可是这与你无关。试着改用取悦自己的方式来让自 己快乐吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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