Someone in your world may be refusing to take responsibility for a mistake they made, or for something they shouldn't have said. You may see this as arrogance, dear Moonchild, or as a way to shirk their obligations. If you look closer and think about that person's past experiences and background, you may discover that there's more going on. There could be an indirect connection to what they have been through, and an insecurity that makes them lie to themselves about their role in a problematic situation. Show compassion, and they'll come around. 你身边的某个人也许拒绝为他所犯的错，或是他不该说的话承担起责任。你可能将之 视为傲慢的行径，亲爱的月之子，或者是逃避他的责任或义务的方式。如果你观察得 更仔细，并且思考那个人过往的经历与背景，那你或许就会发现事情并不像表面上看 起来的那麽简单。这也许跟他所经历过的有间接的关联性，而他们心里有一股不安全 感在作祟，导致他在一个问题重重的情况里，对自己应该要扮演的角色说谎。展现出 你的同情心，然後他就会回心转意。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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