你原本打算这周要探索的一个个人兴趣，可能会因为有朋友表示也想加入而变得有点模糊 不清。 你或许会觉得自己不能拒绝，因为那样可能会伤害对方的感受。 可话说回来，如果对方真的一起来，你可能也没那麽享受。 并不是因为你不喜欢这个人，而是对方可能有一些让人困扰的小习惯或特质，会影响到你 的体验。 又或者，你只是单纯希望能自己一个人完成这件事。 不过，建议你也可以考虑看看，也许这位朋友会带来乐趣，甚至让你的经验更美好。 另外，上周你可能有点心血来潮，把这周的待办事项、杂事或计画安排得太满了，亲爱的 月之子。 别觉得自己非得把当初计划的全部完成不可。 如果现在感觉疲倦或负担过重，就坦然承认，然後重新调整一下时间表。 这不会造成任何损失，反而能让你更专注在真正重要的事情上。 A personal interest that you may have planned on exploring this week could fee l somewhat muddied when a friend expresses an interest in joining you. You may feel that you just can't say no because you would risk hurting this person's feelings. Then again, you may not enjoy it so much if this person comes along. It's not that you don't like the individual - it's just that they may have so me annoying habits or characteristics that could spoil your experience. Or, it could be that you just wanted to do this alone. However, you are encouraged t o consider the possibility that this person might be a lot of fun and might ev en enhance the experience for you. You could have been in the mood last week t o take on quite a lot of tasks, chores, and projects for this week. So, when y ou did your planning, you may have overextended yourself, dear Moonchild. Do n ot feel obligated to do everything you thought you could do. If you are feelin g weary or overburdened, then acknowledge that and reshuffle the schedule. It won't hurt a thing, and you will be better able to concentrate on the prioriti es that you do choose to take on. --

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