亲爱的月之子，你可能依赖某人太深，而这个人很可能并不是你的父母。 你生命中有个人成为了你可靠的帮助与指引来源，这本是件好事，但随着时间推移，你或 许已对他过度依赖。 有人在你生命中带来温暖、安慰、安心与协助，并没有什麽不好——但若依赖过度，反而 会削弱你自身的力量。 下次当你想依赖这个人去做某件你自己也能完成的事情时，试着自己来做。 斩断那条依赖的线。 You may be wrapped up in someone's "apron strings," dear Moonchild, and this p robably is not a parent. There is someone in your life who has become a reliab le source of help and guidance, which is a great thing, but you may have becom e overly dependent on them over time. There is nothing at all wrong with havin g someone in your life who provides a source of warmth, comfort, reassurance, and help - but if you become too dependent, it can take away your own power. T he next time you feel drawn to rely on this person for something you can do yo urself, do it yourself. Break the strings. --

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