你可能会对某位亲人感到担忧。 你看得出来，他们的行为（或是不作为）正在对自己造成伤害，甚至可能影响到未来。 作为天性中带有母性／父性的一员，亲爱的月之子，你渴望引导这个人走上正确的道路。 你可能已经几乎在恳求他们去改善目前的问题。 然而，你不能强迫他们。 有时候，让一个人自己去犯错，才是他们学习的唯一途径。 你可以在一旁支持他们，但无法代替他们做决定。 你也许需要稍微退一步，让他们自己去摸索、去成长。 You may have some concerns about a loved one. You can see they are causing the mselves some hurt and even damage to their future through their actions or lac k thereof. As a naturally maternal/paternal person, dear Moonchild, you want t o guide this individual down the right path. You may be all but begging them t o improve on whatever is going wrong. You can't force it, however. Sometimes i t's wise to let a person make their own mistakes - sometimes it's the only way they will learn. You can be there for them, but you can't do it for them. You may need to take a step back and let them figure it out on their own. --

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