当面对一个控制狂时，最好的策略就是不要让自己也变成控制狂！ 亲爱的月之子，你可能现在感到防备，因为某个个性特别强势的人正试图把他们的意愿强 加在你身上。 你或许会想要躲进自己的壳里，以避免与这个强硬且过於强势的人发生冲突，但这也不是 一个好主意。 相反地，你应该坚持你的立场，表达你的感受。 解释你的想法，举例说明为什麽你想按照自己的方式行事。 不要放弃！ When dealing with a control freak, the best strategy is not to become a contro l freak yourself! You may be feeling defensive now as someone with a particula rly strong personality tries to impose what they want to do onto you, dear Moo nchild. You may feel inclined to retreat to your shell to avoid the backlash o f dealing with someone who is harsh and overly assertive, but that's not a goo d idea either. Instead, be persistent in your resistance. Explain how you feel . Give examples of why you want to do what you want to do. Don't give up. --

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